by Christine Lawler LMFT | Jan 27, 2026
Let’s get real. You’re sitting in your therapy practice (or perhaps, simply at your kitchen table), repeating to yourself, “I don’t like my husband anymore.” Maybe it’s a whisper, maybe it’s an explosion. Either way, it’s worth pausing to unpack what’s going on inside of your mind rather than letting avoidance or shame do the heavy lifting.
It might heal you a bit just to know that feeling like you don’t like your spouse anymore is not a personal failure; it’s a relational signal. Research shows that, on average, marital satisfaction tends to decline over the years. Sometimes, when we get too comfortable, we get lazy with our relationships.
So, what now? Keep reading to learn more.
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by Christine Lawler LMFT | Oct 1, 2025
When a marriage feels like it’s on shaky ground, the question “Can couples therapy save a marriage?” naturally moves from anxious curiosity to an urgent need. The short, evidence informed answer: sometimes. It works more often than many people expect! The longer answer depends on what “save” means for a particular couple, how soon they seek help, what type of therapy they choose, and how both partners show up for the work. For most couples, the studies show that couples therapy works.
Many studies prove that couples who attend marriage therapy tend to leave better off than those who don’t. Keep reading to learn more.
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by Christine Lawler LMFT | Aug 14, 2025
Let’s be honest: most people don’t walk down the aisle thinking, “I can’t wait to be an average spouse.” But then life happens. Jobs, kids, bills, laundry, and the 100 notifications on your phone — and suddenly you realize you’ve been putting your marriage on the back burner.
The good news? You don’t always need grand gestures or expensive trips to turn things around. A better marriage starts with small, consistent efforts that make your partner feel loved, seen, and valued. Here are some practical, doable ways to be a better husband and strengthen your marriage.
Keep reading to learn more.
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by Christine Lawler LMFT | Apr 2, 2025
A very common frustration voiced by women is, “my husband doesn’t help around the house.”
This frustration goes beyond simply wanting someone else to do the dishes or fold the laundry (although, how nice would that be?), it’s about feeling like you have an equal partnership- and feeling like you are valued. Feeling like you are carrying your household and family on your back can lead to resentment and burnout.
If this sounds familiar, know that you are not alone. Many wives and moms feel the heavy weight of the seemingly invisible load of housework. Let’s talk about some ways that you can address this imbalance in your marriage.
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by Christine Lawler LMFT | Jan 8, 2025
Motherhood is an amazing, transformative, joyous journey. It is also HARD! Let me say that again- being a mom is hard. No matter the stage you are in- whether you are 2 weeks postpartum with your first baby, or a month into juggling a newborn and two toddlers- it is not always an easy stage in life. Two things can be true, it can amazingly rewarding, feeling like your heart can burst at any moment from the amount of love you feel… and it can be exhausting and difficult.
If you are feeling completely overwhelmed, burnt out, or lost, I hear you. It is okay to admit this to yourself, and it in no way makes you a bad mom. There is hope in your future, and it can get better! Keep reading to learn more.
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