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December 18, 2024

I Don’t Like My Husband Anymore: What Now?

Marriage can sometimes be romanticized as a never ending state of bliss, love, and connection. The reality is that a marriage is constantly evolving, ebbing, and flowing. Occasionally, this evolution can bring up some uncomfortable thoughts like “I don’t like my husband anymore.”

So, what now? You woke up one morning, poured yourself a cup of coffee, gazed out the window, and realized… you don’t like the man you slept next to last night. Know this- you are not alone! You are not the first or last person to have had these thoughts. It’s extremely common to have phases of dissatisfaction throughout your marriage. Identifying these feelings are the first steps of getting to the root causes. Finding those root causes are crucial to repairing your marriage.

In this blog post, we will explore why you may be feeling this way, how to approach it, and if there is hope for your relationship moving forwards. Keep reading to learn more.

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November 25, 2024

How to Be a Better Husband

Marriage is a journey of change, shared experiences, mutual respect, and steadfast support. It is an amazing union of two people who love each other- but it is also HARD.

If you are reading this, you’re probably wondering how to be a better husband. Thats great! You have started the journey to put more effort into your marriage. Being a better husband is not always about grand romantic gestures or gifts- it’s about continuing to show up and choose your partner and your marriage every day.

Keep reading to learn some strategies on how to be a more thoughtful, present, loving husband.

June 19, 2024

How to Deal With a Lazy Husband

If you’re reading this, you may have googled how to deal with a lazy husband… and you’re not the only one!

Marriage can be a beautiful journey, but it definitely has ups, downs, and unique challenges. Are you tired of feeling like your husband expects you to clean up after him? Or that he never considers your already heavy workload, and never compromises? Does it seem like he has no motivation or even consideration for you?

Maybe life threw you some curveballs you could have never expected, and your husband just can’t get back in to the swing of things. Maybe you feel like it’s just “who he is”. If you find yourself frustrated with a husband who may not be pulling his weight or contributing equally to your relationship/family, you’re not alone!

Here are some tips to help you navigate this situation with empathy, understanding, and practical strategies. Read More

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November 1, 2023

‘I Hate My Husband After Having a Baby’ and How to Navigate it

Have you ever thought (or voiced), in a postpartum hormonal rage, “I hate my husband!” Believe it or not, you are not alone in this. This is actually a common feeling, and a very common google search.

Bringing a baby into your life can be a beautiful and transformative experience. While it is often described as a time of love, joy, and fulfillment, the postpartum period can be incredibly challenging. Hormones are raging, your body is healing, and you’re probably more than a little sleep deprived.

If you have resentment towards your husband post baby, and you want to know why and what to do next, keep reading.

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February 24, 2023

Why Am I Unhappy With My Marriage?

When we agreed to walk down the aisle, many of us were excited for a future with our partner that would be filled with happiness and joy. However, the reality is that many people are currently unhappy with their marriages and there are many reasons for this.

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January 13, 2023

What is an LMFT?

What’s the first image that comes to mind when I ask you to think of family or relationship conflict? Consider a heated argument between a married couple. Perhaps it’s a parent who is struggling to manage her child’s out-of-control temper tantrums….or a father who is struggling with a drinking problem while his family looks on helplessly. Regardless if these scenarios fit your current situation or not, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) or (MFT) may be able to help!